“You cannot make a long-term change in behaviors without addressing the beliefs that underlie them… Most humans try to change things by focusing on behaviors.
“Many of us learned that keeping busy…kept us at a distance from our feelings…Some of us took the ways we busied ourselves—becoming overachievers & workaholics—as
“Often people attempt to live their lives backwards; they try to have more things or more money, in order to do more of what they
Family roles in dysfunctional families (which is all of us are part of at one time or another) were introduced by Sharon Wegscheider-Cruse in her
“Life is a journey up a spiral staircase; as we grow older we cover the ground covered we have covered before, only higher up; as
Nothing you will ever do to find a career, a life mate, a friend, etc. will help you as much as knowing your personality labels.
Misrepresented mankind- “What we commonly call man–the eating, drinking, planting, counting man, does not–as we know him-represent himself, but misrepresents himself. Him we do not