I use the following resources when I feel I have lost my way:
1. “The Guest House” by Rumi (check out his other writings):
“This being human is a guest house, every morning, a new arrival. A joy, a depression, a meanness. Welcome and entertain them all, even is they are a crowd of sorrows who violently sweep your house empty of all its furniture. Still treat each guest honorably, they may be clearing you out for some new delight. The dark thought, the shame, the malice: meet them at the door laughing and invite them in. Be grateful for whoever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.”
2. From 10 Simple Solutions for Building Self-Esteem (author-Glenn Schiraldi:
“S.C. Hayes reminds us that we all carry burdens–perhaps memories, partially healed wounds, worries, self-doubts, or fears. Rather than trying to ignore, deny, or hide these, you can think of then as passengers on the bus that you are driving through life. You compassionately acknowledge that they are aboard, but you needn’t listen to every demand, take a detour, or let them drive. In this way we can move ahead purposely in life, even with these imperfections. Remember that you are driving, not being driven. Choose a pace that is comfortable. You can’t do everything, and you can’t do it all at once. But you can experience the security and satisfaction of doing what you can do.”
3. From Ronald Alexander: “Three Steps to Creatively Transform Any Crisis, Loss or Change”:
Step One: Letting Go of the Past and Resistance
The art of creative transformation begins with the willingness to be mindful of your hidden resistance to making a change, examining it, and breaking it down so that you can sweep it away like sand on a doorstep. If unwanted change has occurred, you’re likely to become angry or upset, and struggle to regain what’s been lost. You might find yourself closing your eyes to any other avenues available to you, obsessing about the past and trying to reclaim what was once yours. This resistance blocks you from recognizing that what lies ahead for you might actually make you happier than you’ve ever been
Step Two: Learn How to Tune into Your Creative Unconscious
The second step is tuning in and listening to the wisdom of your soul or unconscious, the state in which core creativity takes place, beyond the limitations of the mind’s thought processes. Whenever you reconnect to this core, authentic self through open mind, the temporary circumstances of life stop distracting you. You’re able to trust that the creative process will produce opportunities and possibilities in due time.
Step Three: Learn How to Move Forward with Practical Plan
Rebuilding after any great loss can be extremely difficult, but again and again, I’ve seen people use meditation and the art of creative transformation to pull themselves out of a valley of despair and even create successes they never would’ve dreamed of before their initial loss. A forward-thinking view can lead to reinvention and healing.
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Reblogged this on healingbookbybook and commented:
A great post on a great blog called “Emotional Sobriety: Friends & Lovers.”