Description of second born: Tend to be competitive, social and the peacemaker. They make good negotiators.
Strengths of being second-born: Well adjusted—social—great
Weaknesses of being second-born: Avoid confrontation—hide their
feelings—feel inferior to others
To overcome limitations, use the following suggestions to make affirmations: To make affirmations powerful: state them in the present tense only, be positive, be specific, begin with “I”, state the affirmation as if it were already accomplished to avoid wishful thinking, and keep them free from condemnation or criticism.
For example, say “I am free of fear.” Not ”I’d like to be free of fear.”
If you have a belief in God or a Higher Power, use that belief in your
Avoid focusing on one narrow solution. Instead open yourself up to the
solution for the greatest good of all concerned.
Affirmations have the power to replace years of negative thinking. Combining affirmations with creative imagery gives anyone the ability to create positive transformations in her/his life.
In a little booklet named “It Works”, R.H. Jarrett suggests starting with a small goal or idea in the beginning. A specific amount of money for the first request is the easiest to start with. Write down this request in a simple, straight-forward way, such as, “I will be receiving $10,000.00.”
It is recommended that this statement be read aloud several times throughout the day. Many people write these requests in a journal or they can be recorded into a cassette player.
Specific questions to examine for 2nd born are:
5. Is it OK for you to put feelings ahead of logic?
6. Is it OK for others to be the way they are?
7. Is it OK for you to feel okay, even if everything is not perfect?
8. Is it OK for you to feel okay even if you do something
Best match= First or last born Worst match=Middle born