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		<title>Using Self-Discovery To Find a New Career</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The paradox of self-discovery is that the more we understand ourselves, the more we understand and accept others. The more we know, the less we fear. A Course in Miracles teaches that there are only two main emotions: love and fear. The Changemaker Test, designed to provide personality indicators&#8211;called labels&#8211;so anyone has some tools about [...]]]></description>
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<p>The paradox of self-discovery is that the more we understand ourselves, the more we understand and accept others. The more we know, the less we fear. <span style="text-decoration: underline;">A Course in Miracles</span> teaches that there are only two main emotions: love and fear.</p>
<p>The Changemaker Test, designed to provide personality indicators&#8211;called labels&#8211;so anyone has some tools about themselves that they can study to see why they make the decisions and choices they make.  Then from this foundation of self-discovery, he/she can continue exploring and recreating themselves through her/his lifetime.</p>
<p>The Changemaker Test Categories are:<br />
(1) NLP&#8211;Neurolinquistic Programming<br />
(2) Birth Order<br />
(3) Family Roles<br />
(4) Our Emotional Energies<br />
(5) MBTI&#8211; Myers-Briggs Type Indicator</p>
<p>The Changemaker Test is at <a href="http://answersbyemail.com/">http://answersbyemail.com</a>.</p>
<p>During the energy you spend in re-inventing yourself, you will learn new career choices for your personality labels. The labels can be quite effective at weeding out what you love to do and what you&#8217;ve taught yourself to do against your basic nature. Find what you love to do and life will be a continual joyful experience.</p>
<p><strong> </strong>Some longer posts you may enjoy reading are:</p>
<p>(1) <a href="http://www.goodlifecoaching.com/CreativeLife84.html#anchor1">Reinventing Yourself</a> at Good Life Coaching has some good tips: take it at your own pace, look at where you want to go, maybe take an interim step, deal with the flak and remember that reinventing yourself means creating a new identity.</p>
<p>(2)  <a href="http://www.bestyears.com/identity.html">Reinventing Yourself</a> from Mike Bellah is about the fundamental quest at midlife. He quotes Ross Goldstein: &#8220;The fundamental quest at midlife is to figure out who we are and who we want to be as we get ready to embark on the second half of life.</p>
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		<title>What Do You Like to Do?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over a 40 year period, I, Kathy Berman, have worked in eight different careers including teacher, education specialist, insurance/investment sales, addiction counselor, marketing specialist, manager of parks, manufactured home sales and author. The greatest gift from having had such diverse jobs is the reality that no one knows a job before they begin. We learn [...]]]></description>
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<p>Over a 40 year period, I, Kathy Berman, have worked in eight different careers including teacher, education specialist, insurance/investment sales, addiction counselor, marketing specialist, manager of parks, manufactured home sales and author. The greatest gift from having had such diverse jobs is the reality that no one knows a job before they begin. We learn jobs on the job.</p>
<p>All the talents you are good at on your present job will be talents that you’ll use on new jobs/careers. List the 10 aspects you feel comfortable with on a job. Don&#8217;t be afraid to change or modify your list. Put it in a conspicuous place and check it over every day.<br />
A career shift is easy after you understand the qualities you must have for any job. What are your interests and desires?</p>
<p>Career Questions:</p>
<p>Where do you see yourself five years from now?</p>
<p>Where do you see yourself ten years from now.</p>
<p>Is there something in your life that you want and don’t have?</p>
<p>What is stopping your moving forward?</p>
<p>What do you need to change today to make your career move forward?</p>
<p>Robert Longman has suggested these questions:</p>
<p>1. What one subject can you enjoy talking about for many hours?</p>
<p>2. Do any of your hobbies involve working a lot with other people?</p>
<p>3. What specific concerns preoccupy your mind, breaking into whatever else you&#8217;re thinking about?</p>
<p>4. What do you most enjoy doing for others?</p>
<p>5. Let&#8217;s pretend you&#8217;ve reached the end of your life, and you&#8217;re in heaven looking back on it.</p>
<p>6. What&#8217;s the one thing you want to be most happy about having done or having been?</p>
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<li>Who &#8216;out there&#8217; in the world have you come to care about the most? Who do you most want to help, enable, or reach? (You define the categories, whatever way you want. Go with your first instincts.)</li>
<li>Now, write down at least five of your life experiences that most gave <em>you</em> a sense of fulfillment and/or growth. (Don&#8217;t think about them until later &#8212; just write them down for now.) If more experiences come to mind, just keep listing them until you exhaust yourself. You&#8217;ll sort them out later.</li>
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