admin on July 19th, 2010

Because I believe that codependency is the breeding ground for addiction, I would like for everyone interested in helping addicts to be aware of the characteristics of children growing up in families with addiction. I also believe that that applies to most of us. Understanding that addiction can be about money, power (which is what [...]

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admin on January 27th, 2010

My 33rd year of recovery from alcohol addiction began Nov. 24, 2009. Needless to say to anyone living a spiritual quest, many emotions are stirred up during an anniversary. In taking another 5th step, I realized that I had recreated the home of my childhood (aftermath of my recent fifth step). I had the good [...]

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admin on October 28th, 2009

Father Martin and the 12 Steps In the process of recovery, I learned that I was a “top-dog” in the relationship power position in the codependent role I learned as a child. If one looks at any family, some family members will be the “boss” or top-dog and some, for lack of a better word, [...]

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admin on October 26th, 2009

(Side note–today is my 69th birthday. What a wonderful life God has given me.) Codependency/PTSD/relationships is my new research study. Although I thought I have been applying what I have learned about codependency, imagine my surprise and pain when my active drinking alcoholic husband left me June 12th and I had to admit that I [...]

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admin on October 22nd, 2009

As I mentioned in an earlier post, when I am ready to connect some things for my recovery, God delivers the perfect post. In this case, it was “Cutting the Cords of My Past” by Willow on her blog, Making My Peace. Willow writes about her study of learning about energy healing. One of things [...]

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